Male Chastity Lifestyle Couple

Several people have asked me what stops him cutting off his cage as an act of disobedience to satisfy his craving to get erect and cum.  The answer is nothing but his own desire to be chaste which sometimes may fail him. In the early days of him being locked full-time we had two incidents of him removing his device illegally. It is quite easy for him to do but is obvious because of the damage to the locking mechanism. He does have a PA piercing which makes undetectable pull-outs impossible so if he does want to escape the only way is for him to break the lock which only needs a pair of good pliers or something like a Dremel. The whole point of the chastity lifestyle for him is about being able to control himself by directing all his sexual energy to pleasing me.

The first time this happened he was so apologetic and wanted me to lock him up again, which I did and all went well for a couple of months. Then it happened again. He was equally apologetic but this time I refused to submit to his pleading for me to be his keyholder again because I could not trust him to control himself next time his desperation was getting out of control. I told him if he knew he could cut off his cage without any repercussions whenever the going got tough then our male chastity lifestyle would not work and was over. Furthermore I told him that as I did not want to return to our old unsatisfactory sexual ways then any form sexual activity was on hold indefinitely.

He locked himself back in a cage promising never to remove it again without permission. I resisted his pleading for a couple of weeks but eventually agreed to become his keyholder again providing he accepted a session of corporal punishment for disobedience. He was so relieved to be getting back what he was so badly missing that he readily agreed.

I caned him by laying on the strokes carefully three to four inches immediately above the crease area between buttocks and thighs. This is the fleshiest part of the buttocks and allows the caner to use maximum force with least damage to induce the most punishing pain. It also left the top rear thigh area just below the crease free for an additional caning if deemed necessary in the following few days.  

Sitting was painful for many days which reminded him of his disobedience. In addition to the caning I gave him 210 lines to write per day for the next 7 days. He had to write “I will not remove my chastity device without permission”. This equates to 7 pages of 30 lines per day which took him about 2 hours per day to do. The line writing took up all his recreation time for the week. I find writing lines is very good for helping him correct any bad behaviour he may have since he has to think carefully about every line as he writes them. This is because I will not tolerate mistakes or scruffy work. Any mistake, crossing out or scruffiness means the whole page must be done again. I am pleased to say he hasn't taken his cage off without permission since.